secret animosity, a sister wound.
a form of energy harvesting.
Sister wounds are not new. These patterns have existed for centuries. As more and more healthy, highly conscious sisterhoods have been blossoming, deep-rooted sister wounds are also being brought to the surface. Connections between women are being purified of shadows by revealing what’s been suppressed and tolerated for too long.
Secret animosity that women have towards other women is a topic that’s been coming up. Instead of putting up with subtle hostility and sisterhoods that don’t feel safe, those ancient patterns are now being addressed so they can be transmuted.
What Is Secret Animosity?
It’s hidden resentment that hasn’t been expressed directly. But this energy can be felt, picked up on. It can look like passive-aggressive comments, compliments that don’t radiate genuineness, withholding praise or support, and celebrating someone out in the open while secretly hoping they fail.
It can also look like being too interested in someone’s life, gathering information, constantly watching them on social media, giving the energy of a monitoring spirit. It’s an addiction. A way to try to fill a void that’s being felt deep inside.
The energy of secret animosity always leaks. You can sense it, pick up on it. It feels like tension, discomfort, emotional distance, or a sudden shift in the atmosphere. Sometimes it’s hard to name, but you can feel that it’s there. Even when the words are sweet like honey, the energy feels bitter.
Root Causes of Secret Animosity.
1. Sometimes it’s just an insecurity.
This is not envy. In this case, there is no desire to have what the other woman has or to become who the other woman is. It’s more of a feeling of inadequacy next to a beautiful woman who seems like she has it all together. It’s the pain of not feeling enough.
Sometimes, secret animosity comes up as a defence mechanism, where you believe that the other woman is secretly judging you or thinking that she is better than you.
2. Sometimes it’s envy.
This is when you want what she has. When a woman who has already achieved something you desire for yourself, like more beauty, confidence, love, or abundance, envy can come up naturally.
But, instead of seeing it for what it is, it’s turned into secret animosity, a form of self-protection that shows up as judgment, withdrawal, gossip, or passive-aggressive behaviour to avoid the discomfort that's being felt inside.
3. Sometimes it’s (male-centered) competition.
Women have been trained, sometimes subconsciously, to see other women as competition. It’s an ancient wound that stems from women having to compete for protection from men, social recognition in a patriarchal world.
Women are constantly humbled by comparing themselves to another woman’s beauty or accomplishments. Women are being taught that another woman’s magnificence is a reason to feel less worthy.
Rivalry between women doesn’t come from God. It’s not a natural reflection of a woman’s divine nature. It comes from artificial conditioning.
4. Sometimes it’s unhealed betrayals in past sisterhoods.
Sometimes, secret animosity can develop if you have been hurt and betrayed by other women in the past. This unhealed wound can make you automatically reject the possibility of pure-hearted friendships, even when the women in front of you mean well.
You might start to see kindness as fakeness and confidence as arrogance, and prematurely judge and develop secret animosity towards these women.
5. Sometimes it’s a lack of embodiment.
If you haven’t allowed certain parts of yourself to blossom, resentment can build up towards women who have allowed themselves to blossom freely. This can be your sensuality, spiritual gifts, or desire to be seen. If another woman is openly embracing and embodying similar traits within herself, it can turn into secret animosity.
It’s a Form of Energy Harvesting.
Whether you are someone struggling with patterns of envy, projection, or rivalry within sisterhoods, or if you have been on the receiving end of secret animosity, the first step to take is seeing it for what it is: a program.
And this program has been keeping women disempowered.
It keeps us focused outside of ourselves, constantly monitoring, comparing, and competing. It’s a distraction from our beautiful blossoming. Instead of channelling our precious life force into nurturing our radiance, we unintentionally waste this energy by trying to keep up, to stay relevant or to avoid being triggered by another woman’s magnificence.
To heal from this ancient wound, you have to see it as a program implanted in women by the matrix (‘the devil’).
It’s a form of energy harvesting. When women are fixated on each other instead of their divinity and their connection to their higher self, they stay depleted. When women are pitted against each other, there is not much time to awaken their innate gifts and powers. When women are fixated on envy and rivalry, there is not much space for higher wisdom to flow through intuition.
How to Transmute.
If you have been consumed by these patterns, it’s because you are here to transmute these wounds. You are here to shift this heaviness into light. If you feel envious, judgmental or less than within sisterhoods, see it as a collective wound that’s coming up through you. It’s not who you are. It’s not a reflection of your highest self.
So, instead of trying to ‘win’ against other women, become excited to shift these patterns as they come up. Make it your intention to become a woman committed to clearing this artificial implant from her energetic field and the collective feminine as well.
If you have been on the receiving end of these sister wounds, see it as an unfortunate programming. If you can, try to create compassion within you towards anyone who has intentionally or unintentionally hurt you because they were under the influence of this spell. Pray for them if you can, and pray for yourself too, to stay shielded from this energy.
The more you release those old stories with compassion and forgiveness, the faster you arrive in your desired timelines where those types of stories are unable to reach you anymore.
If your energy is picking up on hostile intentions towards you in your connections, don’t dismiss your intuition. Either have a conversation or remove yourself, depending on how much you want to save the connection. You deserve to feel safe in friendships, too. You deserve to be able to open your heart fully, knowing that your sisters only have the purest intentions towards you. If this trust isn’t there anymore, it’s okay to set boundaries and call your energy back.
These stories and patterns are coming up for a reason. It’s to cleanse the collective feminine so beautiful sisterhoods rooted in God can blossom. When women love each other, support each other with the purest intentions, and celebrate the divinity in each other, we create heaven on Earth, and the collective feminine starts to heal one beautiful sisterhood at a time.
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So good. Thank you. Just wrote about sisterhood and how i feel wounded. But im beginning To think im making room for the women who inspire me and who are inspired by me. I want to create value for women and show them im there for them through everything and cheering them on
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this today. It's been a hard day. I made the difficult decision to step away from a sisterhood that has felt onesided and strained for years. There have been moments of hostility, and I’ve come to realize that the foundation of that relationship wasn’t solid from the start.
I value softness, kindness, and grace. I sent her a message simply to inform her of my decision not out of anger, but as a way of choosing peace. I no longer want to be in spaces where I feel unheard, where I constantly have to explain myself, or where I cringe at how I’m spoken to. From now on, I choose to stand in gentleness, to move from a place of love and softness.