real hot girl summer rules.
a return to your most natural state: radiant, relaxed, playful and turned on.
♡Only go where there is love and safety.
Only go where there is love. Your body deserves only the best. Walk away from people, places that make your body feel unsafe. By now, you know that stress steals away a woman’s beauty. You can’t afford to cortisolmax.
Make sure that only safe, healthy men have the honour of getting to know you on a deeper, physically intimate level. I can’t tell you to practice celibacy until you meet ‘the one’ because it’s a personal choice, but make sure to listen to your body and say ‘no’ to anything that doesn’t feel loving and safe.
Only surround yourself with people who truly love and appreciate you. Distance yourself from friendships that don’t treasure you. Only allow the highest soulmates into your life.
♡Do what feels good instead of what looks good.
You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. You don’t have to follow cool summer trends if it’s making you stressed, anxious and exhausted. What makes you excited? Follow your highest excitement moment to moment. Listen to your heart. This will also strengthen your intuition and self-trust. When you listen to your body and do what feels right, you will not only have a fulfilling summer but also learn to trust your intuition more.
There is no such thing as FOMO when your days are planned out by your higher self. What lights you up and makes you feel good is your trend to follow.
♡Date men who worship you.
Remember that you’re the prize. You’re that girl. Remember how beautiful your energy is, how magnificent you are. Only spend time with men who see how beautiful you are, too. Only give your time to men who think you’re their dream girl. Summer is the season of Aphrodite, the goddess of love. Don’t disappoint her by chasing men. No overthinking about nonchalant men or being available for half-hearted offerings.
You are a goddess who is only worthy of the most devotional offerings. So, only accept offerings from men who adore you. Until a devotional man comes into your life, practice self-devotion.
♡Set your own beauty standards.
Everyone is out with a tan, in a bikini, posting on socials how magical their summer is. It’s natural for thoughts of comparison and insecurities to come up during this season. Maybe you couldn’t complete your summer glow-up on time.
But that’s not how it works.
The most powerful beauty spell is loving your beauty. The most powerful beauty spell is setting your own beauty standards and radiating from satisfaction. Remember how beautiful you are in God’s eyes. Remember how special you are. Your energy is specific, a type of beauty that cannot be replicated.
Write down everything about you that makes you beautiful. What makes you sensual? What makes you interesting? If you were the main character in a story, how would the narrator describe you? What would make the readers fall in love with you?
♡Worship yourself.
How would you worship a goddess? Worship yourself the same way. Give yourself lots of rest, bubble baths, ocean swims and fresh fruits. Adorn yourself with beautiful jewellery and outfits that make you feel like an ethereal goddess. Hydrate your skin with fragrant oils. Spend time with flowers.
When the daylight hours go up, the beauty hormone, progesterone, rises. This hormone makes your skin glow, brings your anxiety and inflammation levels down, helps you sleep like a baby and makes you feel sweeter, calmer and happier. It also makes you feel sexier and more beautiful. Your body wants you to feel like a goddess.
So, activate your goddess essence. Fall in love with yourself devotionally. Celebrate your beautiful energy. Move your body in loving, sensual ways. Dance a lot outside in nature, with friends, under the night sky. Talk to yourself with the sweetest words that breathe life into your cells. Perform mirror magic by repeating magnetic, radiance-boosting affirmations in front of your reflection.
♡Embody your most radiant self this summer.
Your most radiant self is a frequency. It’s how you feel about yourself and life. The more radiant you feel, the more magnetic your aura becomes.
What turns you on? What makes you feel more sensual? How does your most radiant self spend her days?
What does she read, what does she eat, and how does she move her body? What makes her so happy and grateful to be alive? Does she take photos of magical moments and paste them in her journal? Does she have movie nights with her friends? Does she write thank-you notes to her spirit guides?
Write a list and do them as much as you can this summer.
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